"A Better Life 4 All"(TM)

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Everybody has their own beliefs and needs. Here are some ideas that may be useful to you.

OUR KEYS TO FINANCIAL STRENGTH:
Includes methods to increase personal and group Financial-Wellness(TM).
Prosperity Through Tax Changes!> 
Books: Think and Grow Rich>. Rich Dad, Poor Dad>.
Videos: Darren Hardy of SUCCESS magazine>.
Regional Occupational Programs (ROP)>
Actualized.org>  Advanced Personal Development.
Landmark Forum>  Programs for personal development.

OUR KEYS TO PHYSICAL HEALTH:

ELIMINATE ALL Airborne Diseases>! by using Air-Sterilizing-Vertical-Ventilation.com(TM)
Food Addict’s> dietary and 12-Step> concepts.
aBetterLife4All.com’s> weight loss and weight management plans.

OUR KEYS TO EMOTIONAL HEALTH:
PAIR-Counseling(TM) is a powerful way to relieve underlying emotional pain that causes Emotional Disorder, bring people closer together, and to learn lots about someone quickly. Couples who want to stay together will strengthen their bond using this technique once a week for about one hour. New acquaintances will learn lots about each other in just one hour; you will quickly learn if you want this person for a friend or not!

Two people take turns talking without interruption from the listener; when triggered, the listener remembers or makes a note on paper to share during the dialog phase. It is an offshoot of Co-counseling> (read this to understand the technique) from Re-evaluation Counseling> but includes dialog after each person shares discussing what the client said. Suggestions can be made during the dialog.

Big Bonus: you the listener of PAIR-Counseling(TM) receives Emotional-Inoculations(TM) by hearing how the “client” responds to “incidents,” so when “it” happens to you, you will be better prepared.

This works because: Writing and speaking forces the mind to slow down to writing or speaking speed. Then writing or speaking organizes, identifies, then relieves pain-causing subconscious thoughts. Left unorganized these nebulous thoughts constantly linger in one’s mind ever circling and encroaching on one’s well-being whenever stimulated by similar current events. Once identified, the conscious mind can reprogram the subconscious mind to react to similar current events appropriately.

Example: I had PTSD for 15 years and didn’t know it. I was in a terrifying, deadly tornado in Oklahoma. For 15 years, I occasionally fell into a two-week unexplained funk. After 15 years, I talked with a friend about the several, random two-week funks I suffered. Talking about it made me realize all the “random” funks were triggered by clouds darkening quickly, or heavy rain, or hail, and even when I heard the song Oklahoma (where the wind comes sweeping down the plain). My conscious mind then reprogramed my subconscious mind to look for a tornado when triggered, and then to react or not depending on the current event. I have not been in a single tornado funk (or a tornado) for several decades. I was in the funnel of the tornado, not many people survive that. It is still very disturbing to think about it, but I do not go into a funk anymore.

Conflict-PREVENTION(TM): At least once a week couples who want to stay together, friends, and associates should ask each other, “Have I upset you this week?” If yes, apply the steps of our Conflict-PREVENTION(TM) based on Dr. Thomas Gordon’s Conflict Resolution>, and our Anger Management techniques.

12-Step Programs>  are fantastic for a vast number of people.

OUR KEYS TO SOCIAL COOPERATION:
Social-Wellness(TM) is the wholesome interactions between people: from  One to One, FAMILY life, all the way up to Nation to Nation, even if people or groups have different circumstances of birth, upbringing, well-connected relatives or friends, religion, gender, ethnicity, race, caste, disability, age, gender, or sexual orientation. Tolerance is the acceptance of other points of view.

The Keys to Inner Emotional-Wellness(TM) listed above are essential to increase Social-Tolerance-For-Wellness(TM). We believe our Ideas based on Dr. Thomas Gordon’s techniques can accomplish his life mission: to help the world get along better. His techniques are now used in over 50 countries.

In addition to Conflict-PREVENTION(TM) we recommend PAIR-Counseling(TM) see Emotional Wellness, Group Counseling, 12-Step Programs, The Ten Commandments, and The Golden Rule.
Actualized.org>  Advanced Personal Development.
Landmark Forum>  Programs for personal development.

OUR KEYS TO SPIRITUAL STRENGTH:

We at aBetterLife4All.com believe as Paul did in Romans 14: we accept those who have different beliefs, we don’t argue with them, we don’t feel we are better than them, and we don’t believe they are wrong. We know GOD accepts them all.

Some of us feel the presence of JESUS when we listen to In the Garden by Elvis; we share our pains and joys with JESUS, and JESUS takes our pain on HIMSELF and increases our joys!

We recommend Church, Bible study, and discussion, and Prayer. 

A2 Spiritual Faith., A3 God is With Me!.
Actualized.org>  Advanced Personal Development.
Landmark Forum>  Programs for personal development.

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